1.That Chemistry Outside The Bedroom Doesn’t Mean Chemistry Inside The Bedroom
Some of the worst sex I’ve had has been with people that I liked the most — whether it’s actual romantic feelings or just someone I have a great flirt with, it doesn’t guarantee bedroom chemistry. You need to get into bed before you can tell.
2. That Sometimes It Comes Down To Style
Like I said, sometimes it’s not anyone’s fault. I’ve had sex that I haven’t enjoyed at all, but my friend describes as “great sex.” Similarly, some of my friends roll their eyes at the idea of dirty talk, which I really like
3.To Take Criticism
And sometimes it is my fault. Or rather, I’m doing something they don’t like. Learning to be cool with someone saying, “Oh, can you try this instead?” or, “That doesn’t really do it for me,” was a great building block to having good communication about sex. You’re so vulnerable during sex that it’s easy to shut down when anyone comments on what you do in the bedroom. But try to get over it — it’s not personal.
4. That I Need Some Noise
Bad sex teaches you what doesn’t work for you. Personal pet peeve? Quiet sex. That really quiet sex? It weirds me out. I’ve learned that I’m with someone who doesn’t make any noise — moan, talking, something — I need to turn on some music or it’s just not going to be fun.
source: https://overthinkersdating.com/2018/07/23/7-amazing-things-ive-learned-from-bad-sex/
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